Many young people confuse wedding with marriage. There is this desire in every one to get a loving person to become lovers with that will eventually lead to marriage. Being in love is one of the sweetest experiences that can bring about a lot of unforgettable sweet memories. When you fall in love with a person, that person become irresistible to you. There is this butterfly that tingles within you whenever you are around that person. Your heart being occupied with the thought of spending the rest of your life with that person is everything that will matter to you.
But before this loving relationship can eventually culminate into a life time commitment. It is expected of the two love birds to organise a ceremony inviting people to be witnesses to their life time vow and commitment of love to each other.
Earlier I had attended the solemnization of the holy matrimony of a friend of ours and I could feel love and happiness in the atmosphere.
You and I know that the wedding day is one of the happiest day in the couples lives. It’s a day of joy where the couple never envisage challenges that lies ahead in marriage. I hope you will agree with me that wedding and marriage are two things.
Wedding is just a celebration that lasts for some few hours. The wedding celebration last for some few hours and then comes the big journey – marriage.
If you ask many young people why they want to go into marriage, you may be surprise that many will tell you that they just love to be in their beautiful wedding dress, while some may say that their reason is because they are tired of being controlled by their parents or siblings, while some will say that they are ripe for marriage of which they may have little or no knowledge of what marriage is all about.
What is the essence of marriage from the world’s perspective? The world’s perspective of marriage is that marriage is just for fun. Those fun include sex and buying and receiving of gifts. Well, to some extent these things also make marriage sweet but that is not the ultimate reason for marriage.
What is the purpose of marriage according to the word of God? Genesis 2:18-25.
The purpose of marriage is for companionship. The purpose of marriage is for multiplication. According to Genesis 1:27-28. God’s purpose for marriage is for the two to complement each other and to help each other grow.
Here what pastor David Bayo of the Redeemed Christian Church of God, Day Star Parish said about the purpose of Marriage. He said,
The purpose of marriage is to establish what God has said concerning marriage. And he gave Seven purpose of marriage.
The 7 Purpose of marriage:
M- Migration
A- Agreement and adjustment
R- Responsibility
R- Responsibility
I – Intimacy
A- Accountability matt2:32-33
G- Growth
E – Edify…married couples are to build and complement each other”.
As a single planning to be married, you need to start asking yourself about the kind of marriage you desire God to give to you.
Marriage is an assignment.
Marriage is a mystery therefore as a single, you must lift it up to the Holy Spirit to unveil to you.
And as a married couple, you need to begin to run your marriage according to God’s desire which can only be found in Jesus through thorough study of the Bible together.
Remember, the true purpose of marriage is to show forth the Glory of God.
I pray God make our Marriage beautiful in Jesus name.